Today I was thinking about the importance of positive reinforcement - not only in parenting, but in other aspects of your child's development. Our kids are involved with lots of sports and activities and it's our role to not only encourage, teach, and love our children unconditionally, but also to make sure the people they are spending time with outside of your home do the same.
During the years our daughter was playing a lot of volleyball, we were so blessed to have a faith-filled coach that mimicked our parenting style on and off the court. She not only taught the game, but also nurtured, loved, and respected her.
Whatever mentors they are spending time with in sports, the classroom, or other activities, make sure it's a good fit for your child and they are helping them grow in a positive way!
Children all have certain gifts, and it's our job to figure out what they are. Then, we can put people in their lives that support and care for that gift! It is so comforting for the other adults in your child's life to reinforce what you are doing in the home. I thank God for all of those people in my family's life. You know who you are ;)
Peace and blessings,
Lesa
1 Corinthians 13:8
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